I cannot defend the “men suck” policy that you may deem necessary to adopted, because many of us are jerk, pigs, liars, and other things. Many of us do not understand how we end up hurting the girl that we really like. Sometimes we are so focused in getting you guys to like us that we say things that are untrue or do things that end up being detrimental to the relationship. We do not do such thing to be mean or cruel, we just have a strong desire to be with you. Sometimes that desire may stem from purely sexual needs, but do not assume that is characteristic of all of us because it is not. Most of us want the smart, funny, likeable girl. A girl that we feel comfortable with and can share moments with. That’s what us “good guys” are really searching for.
I’m sure it has been tough to find the right guy and I don’t blame you for wanting to call it quits. … But I will say this, don’t give up on us (men).
-One Young, But Wise, Guy
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